Mila I may be from a different camp, but if you really want to go I say go and have fun. Show your h what family times are like. He is still your h. I don't see D proceedings from either of you right?
If you show the cold shoulder what is the point in going? If you decide to go, give it your all. If the sleeping arrangement is in the same room, well then I would enjoy that too. After all you are still his W.
Just my thoughts!
Me 50 H 42 S 22 S 9 D 7 M 12 T 17 H moved out 8/2006 H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks H moved home 5/2011 for good
"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"