I am fun, I make him laugh, I am affectionate, I always look pretty for him, I am smart......... Look squash girl if you want my help let's work on your thinking.
at first, i didn't see the difference in how i phrased it and how you phrased it. after a 2nd glance, then i noticed that our tense was different. geez, maybe i'm not as smart as i think i am. i get it.
in that post, i almost wrote "i think i'm a great catch".
i spent the last 20 mins, reading up on the Stockdale Paradox. repeating it until i got it.
focus the end goal. obstacles in the way - we deal with them when they happen.
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Smell is a incredible trigger of memories. I used smell to help me. Be sensual in your DBing - get all the senses involved, it helps creates connection and positive memories.
i shower every morning so i have this natural clean smell all the time. when i go out with friends, then i apply my signature perfume. i keep it up in case i run into him in the elevator in the morning. i never want to be caught off guard.
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So what is your goal for your marriage?
secretly, i want him to want me again. maybe that's not a realistic goal. but i want him to want to hug me again. i want him to want to wake up next to me. i want him to say that he misses my company.
i get it.
