My UFO (unbelievably fabulous observations)

[hoosiermama]

hm,

Texas professor hottie is coming to visit in a week or so. I vascillate between excitement and abject panic!

Lucky girl! And good he won't be there for D's grad

...sometimes lonely, but not for him, just lonely.

I hear ya. I just realized I'm there now myself and didn't realize it for a while. I think it's great. Lotta unmet needs. But don't need or want X to get them met. They'll get met. Eventually by someone new.

yeah, I was on the fence about the whole coming to graduation thing--thought I'd just let it play out and see what happened. as expected, it became highly inconvenient/impossible, so the decision was made by someone with more wisdom than us!

and not to sound trite, but I will consider myself on the next level when I can meet my own needs without "needing" someone else. wanting is okay, needing not so much ok. and I'm pretty close.