Yes, my wife did the same thing. In the end she had more money than I do so I decided to settle out of court. I ended up with every other weekend plus one overnight during the week plus one night a week of visitation for 2 hours. I just could not bare going to court and possibly losing more than what I already have. Call me weak or whatever but I do not and did not have the cash to drag it out any longer. My state is "pro mother" too. So I cut my loses and ended the fight.
Me 35 Wife 34 Two daughters 8 years and 3 years Bomb 3/30/09 W filed 4/16/09 We met in'92 married in 2000 Divorce final