Sorry to hear that, I am in the same kind of boat as you, but my husband is not the father of my children and now they have all the defects possible, he picks on them and I. My H is in a bad mood and has issues with money. I so much relate in the fact that my H does not work on the relationship, he wants to have the big talk that I have postponed until I finish my finals (very soon). I want to be prepared and not fall apart. I think you meds are going to be your friends for a while, I have never taking any in the past but when my H told me he “loves me but he is not in love anymore” I could not handle it. The meds make you focus more, they don’t solve your problems, but they surety are very useful.
Carlota
M44,WAH54 DS11, DS15 mine S26, D21, D15 his married 2yrs Bomb 12/09 Still in same house, he still waffling Trying to not worry about him and focus on me