Does anyone else have experience in a situation where the W was contesting the H's claim for joint physical custody?

(ie I DO NOT want to become the "Non-Custodial" parent, but my w is unwilling to agree to join/joint custody)

Me 42, W 39, S8, S6, S2
M 11y, A & ILYBNILWY 11/08
Walking away from a bad situation.

My Sitch

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