You only tell immediate family, maybe a BEST friend, and possibly an employer, if the affair's been taking place at a location where they both work. You don't go exposing it willy-nilly to anyone and everyone, as it will only make reconciliation that much more difficult, and make you look vindictive and spiteful.
You really need to work on your posts, dude. Several people have already told you that they're unreadable, and I'm pretty sure that's why you're not getting much response.
