mza8,

sounds like your getting antsy about contacting her. I don't think the Annver. card is a good idea.

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Once we get it through our thick skulls that we need to make changes we do it in spades. We become the person who would be what our Ws are wanting to see. Ahh, just rambling I guess.


Ahh yes, and it's up to the WAW to notice these changes and open up again.

MY W said she noticed the changes but still wants a D.
She hasn't forgave me for neglecting her and said I forgive to easy and I'm over optimistic.

What horrible qualities to have.

I read here that it usually take the LBS dating someone or legal actions that bring back the WAW. That's why I join the dating website. However, W knows I'm on there, it didn't bring her back. But I'm enjoying new friends and adventures so it's helping me move on. I am journeying to the other side. I see how getting attention from others can really spark an affair.

mza8 keep doing what you feel is best for you. I have no regrets on my trying to save my M. You shouldn't either. you have come a long way fro m where you were a yeasr ago so be proud.
Things have a funny way of working out.

If you want to make God laugh, tell him your plan.


Bomb 8/09. Brief piecing 12/10. D-2/12
Two incredible kids D9,S6 Leading new life!
“Success is not to be pursued; it is to be attracted by the person we become."