I am going to ask you nicely to stop calling yourself names.
It's not as if your needs in an R are unimportant. It's not 'stupid' to want things that let you know you feel loved.
It is what it is. I don't know the whole situation. He might very well have been trying to show you he cared, and you might very well have missed it. I don't know because I cannot read his mind or yours.
I just think it might be helpful to approach this whole situation like you don't know what to expect (because you really do not).
I am not trying to be critical at all. You did what you thought you needed to do to save your M. Even if there were mistakes made (and I am not saying what those might or might not have been), you at least know you have tried. Your M and family was clearly a priority, and that itself is honorable.
M-47,W-40,No kids D-filed 5/27/2010 Piecing - 10/21/2010 -=Soon to be banned=-
