When the OM called, he also admitted to talking to W on the phone during the day. Later, he sent me this email:
"W is your wife, and I suppose it is your right to use manipulations, distortions, your own children or her parents to control her. Frankly, I just try being nice and respectful to her. But you win! I hope that your marriage can be happy as such!
I enjoyed being her friend while it lasted. You alone are a detriment to her future happiness!"