i think this is where i start to lose sight of everything.
the codependency thing and the "don't believe 100% of what he says" has me questioning whether i really know why my h fell in love with me to begin with.
my educational background - engineering graduate. taught me how to manage my time, workload, and sacrifice.
professional background - software consultant. worked in software ever since i graduated.
what are my strengths - i'm good at looking for problem, providing solutions, but i don't fix them. ;-) someone else does that. but i tell them how it should be fixed. weird, huh? i'm a people-oriented person. i have about 4 people whom i mentor on career issues. for some reason, people feel that they can open up to me and i won't judge them. i give them career direction and then let them decide how far they want to go. sometimes people just need a bit of a nudge. i'm highly respected by my peers.
on a personal level - i think i'm pretty well-rounded. i like who i am. i am comfortable in my own skin. i love cars (imports, no domestics), sports (playing & watching), competitive when it comes to trivia (jeopardy anyone?). when i go out, i clean up pretty nice.
why did my h fall in love with me? i don't really know anymore. i was fun, i made him laugh, i was affectionate, i always looked pretty for him, i was smart. he loved my skin, he loved my natural scent - he says i smell clean all the time which is very sexy. he knew i was someone who wouldn't make him feel bad if he made a mistake. in fact, we laugh at our mistakes together.
if i shouldn't believe 100% of what i hear then maybe all of that is wrong.
