kissak...I see a lot of negative 'karma' here. It doesn't 'feel safe'

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DO I say anything to him about it? or just let it go and know that maybe he is appreciative...just not remembering to say it?


Of course you do. That's called communication. Why should you bury your feelings. The key, as we all know, is not to attack, but, discuss using phrases like, "I feel pain when"....and not say 'you'.

"I was more than happy to help out this weekend but I feel hurt when it appears that I am not appreciated (or taken for granted)."

Good luck Kissak. Looks like much work still ahead.

FIB

Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t
Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10
Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;