Hey, girl, I'm so sorry about all this. My H said ALL the same things yours is saying! I know how you are feeling right now.

I'll come back in a bit & check on you!

Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10