Hopefully a new beginning

[kissak]

Well, today I am feeling a little bit unappreciated by my H. Actually I feel it more than a little bit at times.

Lately my H will ask me to do something, and without thinking twice I will do it for him. All I ask for is a "thank you". Well, today I did something for him....I had to close up my shop to run an errand for him that NEEDED to be done ASAP. I didnt want to do it, but I did for him. Closed up my shop...risked losing a sale or 2...but I didnt complain to him about it. All I wanted was a thank you. Didnt get one. He even snapped at me when he called to give me an address that I needed....ugh....how do I approach him without him getting defensive, or him saying "i thought I did thank you"? I do lots of things for him because I want to. Just a thank you is all I want in return. DO I say anything to him about it? or just let it go and know that maybe he is appreciative...just not remembering to say it?

We did go out Saturday night. It was nice. Went to a sports bar and grill with some of my friends. Stayed there till 1am. He of course had alot to drink as did my friends...I was the DD. He got a text while we were there. Told me it was my buddy's girlfriend. I didnt know who he was talking about until he told me who the buddy was....then it took me a few to figure out he was talking about the exOW! He calls her bf my buddy. Why? well because this buddy wanted to date me once...Im in no way interested in this guy...never was...but H likes to do this. Nevermind he was texting the OW...she wanted a paper he had. well, at least he wasnt hiding it from me. She still talks to him when she wants something. ugh

Speaking of the exOW...I went to the store last week, saw her car there and decided I would go to the store the next day...trying to avoid running into her. Well the next day I go to the store, and I run into her anyway! It caught me so off guard that I stuttered at my Son when I was talking to him....I absolutely hate running into her...nothing was said and we pretended NOT to have seen each other.

Also found out my H said that my "buddy" was suggested by me to be his friend on fb....I quickly told him that I hadnt suggested him as a friend to anyone, but i did quickly say that the exOW tried to befriend me on there too and I quickly hit IGNORE!!!

Well, just wanted to get this off my chest....other than that...things seem good I guess...just a few glitches of past behaviours coming out with the unappreciativeness. Wondering how to approach if at all.