Coach is right--don't waste time on "what he is thinking". In my detached state right now I can "see" H sometimes has good thoughts about me, sometimes bad, sometimes he's confused. I don't care where he is at any given moment--I'm just doing what *I* have to do according to what I know about my H.
You know your H better than anyone on the planet. The answer to "what to do" is in you.
