I just want to bring that into the discussion to underscore the point that no touch does not equate to there being a third party.
It may not but, sadly, in many cases it can and does. Whatever the real issues are, don't ever stick your head in the sand. No one is saying there is, but, having been here for awhile, the burn is much greater when you choose to look the other way. As Dr. Phil says in one of his books, "you own your marriage". Be smart. Don't live in denial. Know. Learn. Grow.
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Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11) Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10 Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;