MLC - standing by my man

[lalxx]

Hi Mila,
Give time, time - time for you to get comfortable with the strategies you have started to use - immediate results aren't in MLC land - as well you know.

Sounds to me as if his MLC has been brewing for years and you have ingrained behaviours with each other - rituals and dances he knows and he has an expectation of how you will react. Nothing chnages if you still behave as the same Mila.

As one old (and very irritating) boss used to say to me "if you always do what you've always done, you'll always get what you always got"

((hugs))

lalxx