The long weekend is approaching and a few weeks ago STBX mentioned that she'd like US to take the kids away for an overnight trip, but only if I was comfortable with that. I didn't respond and since then she hasn't brought it up again. If she does, I'll say NO. I'd be glad to do something during the day but no overnights, that's just too weird for me. Btw, I'm back at work today and it's the toughest day of the work week for me. It should be loads of fun, especially if I make it to the end of the day!