I'm thinking about disappearing completely, to where we do not cross paths, making sure he's never home when I am, nor even let him hear me enter or exit. As if for all he knows I'm lying in a ditch somewhere. I feel like he doesn't even deserve to know if I'm ok or not.
Any thoughts?
I actually think this is a good idea -- not to punish him or try to make him miss you, but to help you move on. If there is any possible way you could get out of the house (or get him out of it), that would be even better. At this point the very best thing you can do is stop focusing on him and focus on your own wellbeing as much as possible.
