Just go with the flow and let everything fall into place on it's own. I' a little concerned tho that you say there is a need to "re-connect". For (x)W and I, it just happened. We, much like you were insantly commited to making this work, no matter what. We both know how much we can hurt each other (obviously), but mainly what life is like without each other and never want to be there again.
It is a major help that she is being open with you, that brought a ton of relief to my sitch as well. However, I could not tolerate any tie to OM and at the point where we got back together, they were working together as well. That lasted all but a few days before she got him fired.
Me 35/XW 33 S13 & S12 M: 10/17/98 OM & S: 07/08 D final 06/09/09 12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing" 06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10 06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11
