reconciliation after divorce?

[any chance?]

Thanks PG and Abbey.

I am avoiding contact before I leave, and will not contact her while I am gone. I am thinking about leaving her a letter when I depart.

She is set on filing in June, but said yesterday she might be willing to postpone until Sept.

I am letting her process the MC session yesterday, and we shall see what she has to say. I am going to let her contact me.

I was interesting that she commented on my change in attitude yesterday, clearly suspicious that change is even possible. My biggest concern is that she has conjoured me into a controlling monster in our relationship, which was never really true. I don't know how to fight that impression, especially when we are separated.