Sleeping arraignment

[Carlota]

Hi!
I hope some of the newcomers could help me with this. I want to move or make my H move from the bed, since we sleep like two girlfriends and he is so nasty that I gave up on holding him while we sleep. He does not touch me in any way during the day, so now I am the one that feels bad and does not want to initiate anything. I feel like a dog from the street that the first little piece of food sound wonderful. At the same time I am not sure if this is going to affect more our relationship.

Yesterday he made a big deal about the big topic “money” because I spend $20.00 to go to the movies, and he was questioning me about the amount I spend on stinking groceries. I feel like I am responding to my dad. I am very conscious person and save a lot by being a stay home mom, I cook all our meals, buy the groceries, clean, care for my boys. I am extremely devoted to my family. I was crying because I don’t want to argue with him, my parents fought a lot, so I answer to him calmly as what I spend at the groceries.

Thank you in advance,

Carlota