Originally Posted By: The Wifey
So tempted to send:

Dear H,

I don't want to live the rest of my life like this. I looked into your eyes last night and felt myself losing hope. You made your mind up about us and it hasn't changed.

This isn't healthy for me. You drink to feel numb and I take a pill for anxiety. You will avoid getting hurt this way. But I won't.

I am worth making more effort for. If you don't want to then you don't.


Wifey ~~~
That's a pretty good note, girl. Whether you put it in writing, or actually say it to him...seems to me like it needs to be said.

Remember ~~~ when God was imaging YOU, He most likely wasn't thinking "Hey! Let me make this wife for him!" It probably went more like "Hey! I'm going to make Wifey, just like this and that, and won't she be great!" You were not put on this earth to be his wife. You are here to be you. And if he partners in love with you - great. But it doesn't define YOU.

Greek


Me45 H46
T25 M22
S21 & 19
D13
Separated and filed 8/08
Moved home 11/08



Happily ever after is one day at a time.