No you won't be picking back up as if this didn't happen. However you might want to go back and re-read the 6 stages of MLC. Your H is in replay, he must finish that and then go on to depression, withdrawl and acceptance. It would be in this last stage when it would happen. Hopefully by then he would have made many changes. And you too! He is on this journey and their is nothing that you can do to change it.
You must take your own journey and if you can lead your MLC'er through it you will get the best results.
