That he felt that they had a much more "mature" relationship - neither ever want to be unhappy and stuck again, so they've agreed that they'll pack up and move on when asked - just give each other 3 day's notice. I was stunned....after I processed this tidbit for a few days, I realized that he is describing dating. He has no concept of unconditional love.
Wow, that is his idea of a mature relationship?! How very, very sad.
"You can't stop the waves, but you can learn to surf." Jon Kabat-Zinn
