I'm not sure if it will matter or not (if we even get to that point). It seems kind of odd to just "pick back up" as if months and months of lying didn't happen. I guess that's my question. Is the DB recommendation to never confront about it? Does the MLCer usually confess on their own if the come out of this? Or do they act "as if" it didn't happen? And how does the LBS know they're no longer lying?

I'm sure every situation is different, but I'm just wondering in general what the recommendation is and what the MLCer ususally does, as I haven't seen this info.

THANKS


M--14 years
T--20 years, HS sweethearts
dday #1--2002 EA
dday #2--2005 bar sl*t
dday #3/4--Feb 2010 texting/cell/physical/who knows what
Shortly after found out he had been injecting steroids for 2 years