Because you can't fix or rescue her. I undertand this. You have to look at why you feel like this.
If she fails does it reflect on you?
Is she part of your own identity? self esteem?
What is about her and HER choices that makes you bound to them?
Originally Posted By: dbs
I know she'd be worse divorced and I feel guilty.
That is her choice not yours as you said. Why do you feel responsible for her choices?
dbs I know all too well these feelings as I have posted to you in the past. I know you have been on here long enough to know the answers to your own questions.
As someone(Mach) just so aptly and eloquently said to me yesterday:
You know the answer now stop f#cking around and do it!
This is harder than a normal situation what we have to overcome. Keep going forward....
My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am
