Ok, so just thinking here about how my email comes across as cold, threatening and controlling. By the same token, I am not interested in fuzzy wuzzy with my WH anymore. Would it be worth sending a "clarification" email as a follow up, which gets across these points : - i am laying down these boundaries not to threaten, but to move things forward & to protect me and the baby, since positive communication between has been I think impossible to acheive at this juncture - that i have been trying, perhaps sometimes in the wrong way but trying nonetheless, to create a space for dilalogue so that important exchanges about the baby could take place (including financial support and parenting input from him) and to achieve a safe environment for her to be born into. But this has also failed. - that I will be willing to talk when a new conversation can take place, but in the absence of that it will have to be done with the help of third parties.
