Maybe going to the counsellor that the OW recommended is a good idea. After all, she has insight into the psyche of that b1tch.
As far as I know the affair continues happily. I have nothing to either contradict or confirm this. Which is probably a good thing. Snooping was getting tiring anyway.
But whatever, today is good. Blue skies, decent clinic to attend for work, and then dinner and folk club with sMIL. Fabulous times.
Reality is that which, if you don't believe in it, doesn't go away.