Another Monday with no "meltdown", although when I returned from shopping and used bookstore and library, he asked rather tersly where I had been.
I made a nice supper and some scones (my son has decided he likes them) and we played a few games of Rummycube.
I am going to call the C's and see if I can discuss the Love and Respect book they had me read. Good book! Simple ideas, yet like the 5 LLs, makes a lot of sense.
One thing mentioned in the book that my H loves is when I sit with him and watch TV. Only thing is, he watches literally HOURS of television on his days off. I can't sit there like he does (but, I CAN surf the net for a good part of my life.lol) I usually read a book or something--need to find out if that is OK. or if that invalidates my sitting there.
I need to come up with another script--these are used all the time in the Infedelity boards. You say your script and LEAVE--there is no arguing and they are left with the last thing you say resonating in their brain. I am really going to be thinking on this one. Something like:
H, I need a man that is ...
I can't finish it. I need so many things I can't think of "the one". It needs to be very specific and I am all over the place. He doesn't touch me, doesn't say he loves me. Didn't go to church with me Sunday. Sigh.
