Need a Plan for My Marriage

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Well...My wife served me with a summons tonight for the Big D at 8:00 pm at night with the kids here. She said she had to go to the car for something. She said my name (in a real sweet voice) that somebody is her to see you. I knew what was going down. I just ignored it for awhile. She told me her mediator could come in. I accepted the Summons, and I told him to get out that he was not welcome here why it is still my house. My daughter started crying and my son was very upset too. I cannot believe she handled it this way. She put in it to terminate all spousal support to me from the court. I have taken care of the kids, her, and this place even though I have not had a job. It disgusts me. She tried to blame still for our marriage problems. I told her not to even pull that now.

I told her that the Divorce was her decision and that I never wanted a divorce and that I have always wanted our marriage and still do. I did tell her that I will not be a doormat and not fight for what is rightfully mine. I have contributed to my family in so many ways. It is not all about the money in a marriage.

I have a busy day tomorrow.

At the moment, I feel relieved like a big weight has been lifted from me. I also found out how much money she has in her savings which I will fight for.

Also I talked to the OMW and she was going to confront the OM after her son's graduation, and asked me not to tell W yet, and I agreed. That was then, but I will let it out tomorrow, and I will give the OMW a heads up tomorrow before I do it. I have to think about me and my family first for once. I hope this is the right decision. It is the only decision I have to make.

I have to do it. I cannot wait any longer.