I think you need to get your L to do something about that for sure! They put down all the credit cards we had & who was responsible for them when we D. I was thankful that up until that time, I kept the CC paid off. I believe you can get your L to somehow get your H to pay that off. I think that would be good if you can get your H to agree to open up another account. I'm just not sure what needs to happen. Let me know what L says.
I'm doing all right. No news from anyone on this credit mess!