Early in my relationship with XH I would say "I love you" and H would respond "I don't like you to say that you love me. It's hard for me to believe that you do."
This sounds like your XH had some self esteem issues...he didn't believe that anyone could love him?
If my H recognized my nurturing? I think he must have, we were really happy and in tune as far as I know accept for these 2 affairs. Obviously there was something he was missing around the time of the affairs, and the only thing I can think of is my attention to the extend that he needed it to feel loved.
I don't know...I'm just guessing here.
Last edited by Mila; 05/18/1003:44 AM.
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