Originally Posted By: idontunderstand

I wish I could feel my W at least searching for God. She used to be the ultimate Catholic, never missed Mass, Communion, took lent very seriously, etc. Now, she rarely goes to church, does nothing with the kids religion classes, it is all left to me.


That explains a lot about her behavior. People can say what they want, but when you stop making your faith in God a priority, you open yourself up to being brought down by evil.

You can't preach to someone who isn't ready or willing to accept it, but perhaps offer to have her come to church with you. Say you'd enjoy having the whole family there. You can't TELL her to go or tell her the implications of not going, but you can try to make it a warm and fuzzy invitation. As catholic husband it's really your duty to get her back on that track. But again, it has to be by invitation, not by preaching, scolding, or guilt. If she says no, just let it go with a smile and give her the same invitation next week.


WAW Using God
Me-43
W-40
M-14
S-11
S-9
D-7
EABomb 5/09
Separated 12/09