Lots of inner stuff going on with me.. The house issue has been resolved for now... I'll start from where I left off with just the bare-bones facts.. I'm still trying to work through the emotional stuff that happened within me during the final resolution time of this.. trying to figure out if anything was wishful thinking as opposed to intuition or inner voice (I'm probably overanalyzing it)... I'll post more on this tomorrow when I get a chance....

Meeting with the company on title went well actually... They agreed that as long as my mom gave them post-dated cheques a year at a time and did not NSF any of them, they would hold off on pursuing for release of her equity portion.

Mom then spoke to the legal dept at the mortgage company who told her that they would renew the mortgage based on her verbal agreement and her stating that H agreed to it as well. No signatures needed.

Since I had H in an email asking why we couldn't just renew, I told her to go ahead with the renewal for 3 years. She left a message for H at SIL house asking him to call her so she could talk to him about the mortgage (of course he never did).

H emails me telling me when he'd pick kids up as promised and says will not talk to Mom about mortgage... I sent a message back stating nothing to discuss.

I then sent him another email late Friday which I'll describe after I give the emotional part of all of this...

Sorry if I sound cryptic right now.. just trying to figure out a few things in my head before putting them into words..

Feeling pretty calm right now, but I think I've got a touch of flu coming on.. or after effects of the stress...

More details to follow (not about the flu part LOL)...


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