Ok... she's replied.

A short 2 liner: It's not that I don't want to talk, it's that I don't know what to say. I do want to hear about your week though.

I've not replied yet... and I figure I'm supposed to leave it a while, and then keep it upbeat and vague.... how long should I leave it?

God, I hate this. I have no idea what to say or do, but feel like my every word is going to be over scrutinised and used as ammunition against me in a courtroom I'll never be allowed in.

Any advice is welcome!


Me: 29
H: 25
T:7yrs
M:5yrs

Bomb: 23/04/10

Had no idea anything was wrong. Cheated so she could end it without talking.