MLC, H and me

[courageous wife]

Hi NM...thanks but I am not perfect! We will see how I am as the kids are around OW more and talk about her more.

I have not had a very good day. Part of it is from being around H's family this weekend and part of it I think is having the truck as it reminds me of H and my Dad.

I made the mistake of looking through the console, not thinking I would find anything as H had cleaned out everything and lo and behold, there is a picture of H and OW...one of those photo booth things you see in a mall. It said Love and had one picture of him kissing her cheek...blech!!! He still had his beard so it was from sometime before he left home.

I wondered if it was left in there on purpose by him or OW since everything else was gone. Guess it doesn't really matter...that is what I get for looking.

Then, I checked out the bank online where H has his loans for the hot rod and bike to see if he has been making his payments and see that he paid off one of the loans. I am wondering where he got the money to do that? I shouldn't be speculating about it at all but definitely something to talk to the L about as I am struggling to get bills paid here!

Also, found out that I can get my name removed off of one of the credit card bills. H will just have to fill out some paperwork. The other one will be trickier since it is just in my name (had his removed a couple of years ago for overspending).

So, my PMA has disappeared. Seems like he is getting off pretty easy in all of this...