Right now she's not the W you love... I guess there is no guarantee whether she will be 'back'.
It is really hard implementing the DB. It feels so wrong. I've read other books and many talk about similar concept explaining the psychology behind it, so I thought why not, give this a go, doing the same old was what brought our R to this end point anyway.
Although... I'm starting to feel that it's so much easier to drop the rope and move on. Most people in this forum have children, we don't. I'm getting really sick of it so I try to block out any R thought out of my mind, it's just easier that way.
Not sure if my stitch sounds positive, cos what my H wants is to stay 'friends'. It feels a bit more like he's doing it to help himself so that he won't look bad to others. I don't know if I care anymore.
btw B, until you or your W files it's not 'over'. For her to file you've got min.2 years to go (Aus 1yr but she cant file there can she?) and even then the petition has to be approved by the judge to D. Willing to do this for 2yrs or not is another matter though isn't it. I'm not going to file for a yr but by then I'd prob be sick of it, life's too short.
Me:38 H:37, no kids Married: 2.5 yrs, together 5yrs Separated since Mar 2010
