How do I save my marriage to husband in MLC?

[RLay1100]

I know that from my last few posts it SEEMS like I am doing nothing but focusing on MLC H, but I am trying my best to follow the advice given to me here. I am just venting my feelings, concerns here in a place where I know people understand and can relate their own stories, advice, opinions.

Things I have done to GAL:
I joined a gym and go work-out regularly.

I have went out with friends and even stayed out late on a few occasions.

I journal.

I got my first manicure over the last weekend.

I make sure to make every moment spent with my boys count and appreciate them so much more.

These are all things I never did in the entire time I was with my husband (11 years). :-)