It sounds like H is really trying to help you and reassuring you. I can imagine how hard this is as when I went to Chicago this weekend, I remembered H and OW being there this fall and it just really upset me because we never did that stuff. Now we aren't together really, but if he did ever come home and I just imagine feeling just like you do. Hang in there. You are doing so great. It really sounds like H wants this to work so try just talking to him and letting him know what you want or need, when you do know because it really sounds like he wants to help you the best he can.
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