I know your H is not mlc but...over there, they say that the WAS has to be the one to end it and on their terms, when they are ready...if you throw in an ultimatum, it would be seen as controlling and would probably back fire on you.
I think that's a danger too.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
