I've spent the time thinking... be the person that only someone completely out of their minds wouldn't want to be with. That's not for them by the way... it's for you. You just get the benefits of it.
She's skeptical of the changes you are making. Mine was the same way. Sounds to me like she needs this dose of reality of being alone... is there any way you get this D postponed? I sense you're up against the clock here. That said, I don't necessarily think just because someone divorces... they can't get back together. I know of one such couple who I talked to when my H and I split up.
I got the same stuff when H and I split: Leopard doesn't change it's spots etc. They tell themselves what they want to hear.
You like Mystik have to play the waiting game with your spouse. They'll come around... that 3 weeks I still suggest, do NOT contact her.
Abbey
T:22, M:20 H:55 Me:45 H-OW PA: N/07 OW Jan08 Bomb:Feb/08 S: Apr/08 Back together Ap1/09-Sept/11 Oct, 2011, uncertain future/H is a mess. Dec/11 - Doin'friend mode. Some days are better than others.
