I don’t understand my H. We have been talking about getting divorced and planning it out for weeks, and then the last few days have been good, I mean we haven’t fought etc… So today he sends me an email saying that he feels I am being emotional cold towards him, but if he wants a divorce why would it matter if I was, which I will say I am not cold. On Sat. he came into our bed, I have been sleeping there and he sleeps on the couch, he came in and started cuddling next to me and so I did back and we just layed with eachother for awhile. He texts me later that day saying he really enjoyed that time. I don’t know what to do…seems like acting as if I don’t care pushes him away. He has told me before that he is a guy who needs lots of affection and I haven’t given him that over the years, so I am thinking maybe if I start showing him more little by little that would work better then going dark and acting like I don’t care about our marriage working or not. Anyone have any opinions on this?
