Seems as if the MC has raised some demons. W just told me she thinks I am telling her just want I want her to hear, that I am manipulating her, and that she keeps waiting for more revelations. There are no other revelations. I have a PA 5 years ago, and lied about it subsequently. Very bad mistake, very disrepectful, lost her trust. She has a EA/PA over the last several months, and is probably still EA now ("just a friend"), but that is barely on the table.

I was completely upfront and honest today. I thought that was the best thing to do. But it seems as if I only made things worse?

H 51, W 46
no kids
T 22 years
M 17 years
ILBNILWY 2/10
1st D talk 6/10
partial recovery
W files D 5/11
long distance separation 8/11
moving forward on D 10/11
legal separation complete 1/2012