I know your H is not mlc but...over there, they say that the WAS has to be the one to end it and on their terms, when they are ready...if you throw in an ultimatum, it would be seen as controlling and would probably back fire on you.
M48 H53 M16 T18 S16 D13 SS30 H drops bomb PA/8-30-09 H leaves 12-30-09 D filed by H 2-10 H asks to come home 4-11 Piecing
