it does not provide license for my husband to behave poorly toward me now. Each person is responsible for their own behavior period.
Right on track, Fud.
It's easy for us to accept all the blame, as we try to figure out how to save our marriages. And it's important to accept our part in the breakdown in the marriage and make the needed changes. Again, kudos to you for acknowledging right away about your anger issues. Still, it's important not to beat yourself up, and accept blame where it's not due.
You sound so much more clear-headed than me!
So, how is your anger management going? I know that you told your husband that you were going to deal with it. He's is likely to believe more in action than words, and I'm sure it will take time. What are your plans so far?
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