Cause for alarm?

[OfficerInNeed]

Yes, PA would certainly cause me to move on. I am having trouble with EA. My W has giving someone else her heart and thoughts. My thinks this person know her better than I do. I spent 10 years of my life learning my W, OM talks to her for nearly a month and she thinks he knows her better?

As an update.

After my W came out the shower earlier, she laid in bed next to me (with just a towel wrapped around her). We decided to go shopping. We went to a few stores got things we needed. A few times W spoke future tense...many times W was short with me. It seems like I can't engage her and I get a stale response to somethings.

We get back home we play baseball in yard (I just pitched the ball to her and she attempted to hit it). We then played Kan Jam for a while at the same time fooled around with the dog.

Even though W was participating she just did not seem too into it. She cracked a smile a few times but seemed like she was holding back.

We eventually went in...W wanted to deep fry some veggies but deep fryer was missing. We sat on the couch having VERY small talk, mainly about the dog.

W then went upstairs and went into the bath before going she asked if I could heat something up in the oven.

AS mentioned earlier, I suspect my W will start saying she is leaving more often, even more so because from what she tells me the apartment is almost ready. I need something I can say to her that would put doubt in her head

I thought the following up.

"Married couples who are adults work things out, they don't run from a situation, they make the situation better"

I have to think up some more..