I am struck by how lucky I am sometimes. I know that so many LBS are dealing with much more painful sitches than I am. Although I am hurting for my children, H has behaved as honourably as he could given that he wishes to end our M. Part of me wishes I knew if he was in a R, but part of me is grateful to not have my nose rubbed in it or be tortured with the details.
I always enjoy reading your threads, FM, because of your positivity. Thanks again. And yes, we are all lucky in different ways. As painful as our individual sitches are, they are opportunities to make important personal changes, changes for the better. It's unfortunate that many of us need a crisis to motivate us.
One thing: finding solid proof of my W's affair, and that it was more than just one night stands actually gave me a lot of clarity. I'm glad I know. Before, I was in a kind of limbo of hope, and my W used this against me. For whatever reason, this happened at six months and...
Originally Posted By: ClingingToHope
At six months you will be getting your feet under you. The pain will be there, but you will have figured out the beginning of a new life. The second six months will belong to you.
...right around six months this is exactly how I started to feel. The pain is receding, my fog is clearing, and I'm starting to stand on my feet again. I'm starting month seven now.
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