well, just called to see how the kids are.

We said we needed to sit down and talk. he said he's been doing alot of thinking and he'd rather us go our separate ways now and be friends for the kids. He isn't in love with me. Has alot of hate and resentment towards me and doesn't think he'll ever let go of that. He also thinks I want him to fail.

I'm speechless as always but kept it together.

He also went on to accuse me of perhaps cheating on him and that's why our youngest doesn't look like him and that he wants a swab test. What is wrong with him?

he said he'll move out but quite honestly, I don't want to live there (it's the house he grew up in).. how can I move on with my life by living in HIS house (his mother's).

Need help guys.

I don't know how to proceed with this.


M: 32
H: 34
S:5
D: 3
D: 1
Together 11 years
Married 7
Bomb: PA/EA 8/13/09 (for 1 year on and off)
ILYBINILWY: 08/09

"The end of suffering happens with the end of wanting."
-Laura Munson