w says "if you are changing and becoming a better man, than why don't you give me the divorce? You hurt me for so long in our M and now you are still hurting me because you won't help file."
"I understand how you could feel that way. I won't do something that goes against my beliefs and values that's why I have decided I will not file for divorce."
Your wife does see you changing but she needs to feel secure that your changes are for real. This is where the consistency in your actions is your proof. Expect to be tested on your changes.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
